Right.
The minimal sum adapter that works with the Stereo Send (I tested it) is a modified TRS male -> TRS female cable (stereo plug -> stereo socket).
For the mod you need two 4.7 kOhm resistors (1/4 W or more, 10 kOhm should work, too):
plug L -> 4.7kOhm -> socket L
plug R -> 4.7kOhm -> socket L (yes, L!)
plug GND -> socket R + socket GND
So you open up the socket, cut both the L and the R lead at the end, solder in the resistors and solder GND to R.
That is an easy job for someone who can solder.
Hope that helps.