As above, but... ears can be tricky, there's PERCEIVED volume (how your ears hear the sound) and actual SPL Volume as measured in decibels.
Heavily distorted tones might be PERCEIVED as louder, but because distortion compresses the peaks, clean sounds might actually be louder when measured in decibels.
The longer you spend on comparing by ear, the less accurate your ears become - called "ear fatigue".
If you go this way, rest your ears frequently.
Most modern humans have a smart phone. You can get an app to measure decibels.
Not SCIENTIFICALLY accurate, but RELATIVELY accurate and sufficient to the task.
You can also use a DAW. In addition to input meters most DAWs have a db meter plugin, or one can be DL'd.
This is an even more accurate way than a phone app in that the signal is direct, and therefore not affected by ambient sounds. They also react faster.
Someday someone will create an AI to level our tones and protect us from loud music.
Skynet to the rescue...